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Free lactation support
Talk with a staff lactation professional, in person or virtually, about how to safely maintain or suppress your supply.
bereavement program
However you are grieving, you do not have to do it alone.
We give our deepest condolences for your loss. Lactation during such deep sorrow may bring a range of emotions, all of them valid. Whether you need support with milk suppression, milk expression, or milk donation, we are here for you.
a family's story
The Poindexter family's gift of hope after loss.
Annabelle and Logan courageously share their daughter Campbell's story. After their loss, Annabelle became a milk donor, saving other infant lives. "It was part of my healing process, to be honest with you."
The Poindexters later welcomed their second child, a rainbow baby named Callahan, who was in the NICU and received pasteurized donor milk from The Milk Bank. Their full-circle journey has helped enhance services for bereavement families and reduce the isolation that can follow a loss.
the program
Compassionate care shaped around you
Our Bereavement Program is designed to honor your child, meet your unique needs as a parent, and walk alongside your grief journey. Lactation is often an overlooked part of pregnancy or infant loss, and you deserve education and support around your choices.
You do not need to be a donor to talk with us. To reach our Bereavement Coordinator, call 317.536.1670 and select zero.
ways we can help
Whatever you need right now.
There is no single right path. Take the one that fits where you are.
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Milk donation in memory
Donate for research, or complete the full donor approval and donate for fragile infants. Our advocates team walks you through both.
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Resources and community
We typically offer free Mind-Body Medicine groups for bereaved families throughout the year. We may also be able to help you access a pump or suggest other community supports.
Bereavement Milk Donor families are also welcome to place a personalized, engraved leaf on our memorial tree, attend events for bereavement families, or request a private tour.
Healthcare professional? Download the Bereavement Lactation Standard of Care.
"It's an honor to have been able to donate and to honor Antonio with his leaf. Thank you for giving purpose to our pain by giving us a way to help others in his memory."
Sam, mother to Antonio and Bereavement Program participant
related reading
Healing for Families
A Milk Bank article for families navigating grief, support and the next steps after loss.
support the mission
We are on a mission to save lives. Will you join us?
Not everyone can make lifesaving milk, but everyone can support infant lives. Your financial gift sustains the Medical Relief Fund, the Bereavement Program, and free lactation services.